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Adoption HomestudyThe Adoption Home Study Process: Factsheet for Families The home study process can be a source of anxiety for some prospective parents, who may fear they will not be “approved.” It may be helpful to remember agencies are not looking for perfect parents. Rather, they are looking for real parents to parent real children. With accurate information about the process, prospective parents can face the home study experience with confidence and the excitement that should accompany the prospect of welcoming a child into the family. Specific home study requirements and processes vary greatly from agency to agency, State to State, and (in the case of intercountry adoption) by the child’s country of origin. This factsheet discusses the common elements of the home study process and addresses some concerns prospective adoptive parents may have about the process. If you are just beginning your journey to adoption, you may find the Information Gateway factsheet, Adoption: Where Do I Start? useful. Information Gateway also offers the National Adoption Directory, a searchable database listing public and licensed private agencies, attorney referral services, support groups, State adoption specialists, and more for each State, Territory, and the District of Columbia. These resources, as well as factsheets with specific information on special types of adoption (such as foster care or intercountry), can be found on the Child Welfare Information Gateway website. Elements of the Home Study Process There is no set format that adoption agencies use to conduct home studies. Many agencies include the following steps in their home study process, although the specific details and order will vary. For more information, talk with the agencies you are considering. Training Interviews Home Visit Health Statements If you have a medical condition that is under control (for instance, high blood pressure or diabetes that is controlled by diet and medication), you may still be approved as an adoptive family. A serious health problem that affects life expectancy may prevent approval. If your family has sought counseling or treatment for a mental health condition in the past, you may be asked to provide reports from those visits. Many agencies view seeking help as a sign of strength; the fact that your family obtained such help should not, in and of itself, preclude you from adopting. However, each family’s situation is unique, so check with the agencies or social workers you are considering if you have concerns. Income Statements Background Checks Public and private agencies need to comply with State laws and policies regarding how the findings of background checks affect eligibility for adoptive parents. However, do not hesitate to talk to agencies and social workers you are considering about specific situations that might disqualify you from adopting. Agencies are looking not just at your past experiences, but at what you’ve learned from them and how you would use that knowledge in parenting a child. Some agencies in some States may be able to work with your family, depending on the charge and its resolution. If the social worker feels you are being deceptive or dishonest, however, or if the documents collected during the home study process expose inconsistencies, the social worker may have difficulty trusting you. Autobiographical Statement While writing about yourself can be intimidating, the exercise is intended to provide information about you to the agency, as well as to help you explore issues related to the adoption. Some agencies have workers to assist you with the writing. Most have a set of questions to guide you through writing your autobiography. References If possible, references should be individuals who have known you for several years, who have observed you in many situations, and who have visited your home and know of your interest in and involvement with children. Most agencies require that references be people unrelated to you. Good choices might include close friends, an employer, a former teacher, a co-worker, a neighbor, or your pastor, rabbi, or leader of your faith community. Approval would rarely be denied on the grounds of one negative reference alone. However, if it were one of several negative factors, or if several of the references were negative, the agency might be unable to approve the adoption. The Home Study Report Typically, the above steps culminate in the writing of a home study report that reflects the social worker’s findings. Home study reports often are used to “introduce” your family to other agencies or adoption exchanges (services that list children waiting for families) to assist in matching your family with a waiting child. In general, home study reports include the above-mentioned health and income statements, background checks, and references, as well as the following types of information: Family background. Descriptions of the applicants’ childhoods, how they were parented, past and current relationships with parents and siblings, key events and losses, and what was learned from them. Education/employment. Applicants’ current educational level, satisfaction with their educational attainments, and any plans to further their education, as well as their employment status, history, plans, and satisfaction with their current jobs. Relationships. If applicants are a couple, the report may cover their history together as well as their current relationship (e.g., how they make decisions, solve problems, communicate, show affection, etc.). If applicants are single, there will be information about their social life and how they anticipate integrating a child into it, as well as information about their network of relatives and friends. Daily life. Routines, such as a typical weekday or weekend, plans for child care (if applicants work outside the home), hobbies, and interests. Parenting. Applicants’ past experiences with children (e.g., their own, relatives’ children, neighbors, volunteer work, babysitting, teaching, or coaching), in addition to their plans regarding discipline and other parenting issues. Neighborhood. Descriptions of the applicants’ neighborhood, including safety and proximity to community resources. Religion. Information about the applicants’ religion, level of religious practice, and what kind of religious upbringing (if any) they plan to provide for the child. Feelings about/readiness for adoption. There may be a section on specific adoption-related issues, including why the applicants want to adopt, feelings about infertility (if this is an issue), what kind of child they might best parent and why, and how they plan to talk to their children about adoption-related issues. If the agency practices openness, there may be information about how the applicants feel about birth families and how much openness with the birth family might work best. For more information, read Information Gateway’s Openness in Adoption: A Fact Sheet for Families. Approval/recommendation. The home study report will conclude with a summary and the social worker’s recommendation. This often includes the age range and number of children for which the family is recommended. Applicants also will be asked to provide copies of birth certificates, marriage licenses or certificates, and divorce decrees, if applicable. Some agencies allow prospective parents to read the home study report about themselves; others do not. You may want to ask the agency about the confidentiality of the home study report and how extensively your information will be shared. Agency policies vary greatly, depending on the type of agency and type of adoption. In many cases, the information will be shared with other agencies to help in matching the most appropriate child with your family. In some cases, the information may also be shared with birth parents or others. Common Concerns About the Home Study How long will the home study take? How much does a home study cost? For domestic infant adoption, intercountry adoption, or independent adoption, a private agency or certified social worker in private practice might charge from $1,000 to $3,000 for the home study. Other services (such as an application fee and preplacement services) may be included in this fee. Be sure to discuss any fees thoroughly and ask for this information in writing to avoid any misunderstandings. For more information about costs of adoption and resources to help defray those costs, see the Information Gateway factsheet, Cost of Adopting. What might disqualify our family from adopting? Who may adopt varies from agency to agency, State to State, and by the child’s country of origin. Adoptions in the United States are governed by State law and regulations. Child Welfare Information Gateway has compiled States’ laws regarding who may adopt in Statutes at a Glance: Parties to an Adoption. Some States also have their policies posted online. The Information Gateway publication, State Child Welfare Agency Websites, has links to each State’s online adoption information. Within State guidelines, many agencies are looking for ways to rule families in rather than rule them out, to meet the needs of children in the U.S. foster care system waiting for adoptive families. Thousands of children in the U.S. foster care system are waiting for families. The AdoptUsKids website provides a national online photolisting of children in foster care. Information Gateway offers a complete listing of State Child Welfare Agency Websites on its website. How will the children in our family be involved in the home study? The social worker will likely ask how the children do in school, what their interests and hobbies are, what their friends are like, and how their behavior is rewarded or disciplined. However, the emphasis will more likely be on how the children see a new sibling (or siblings) fitting into the family and whether they are prepared to share your time and attention. Children’s input is usually quite important in the overall assessment of a family’s readiness to adopt a child. The social worker will want to make sure that an adopted child or children will be wanted and loved by all family members from the start. Conclusion Although the adoption home study process may seem invasive or lengthy, it is conducted to help you decide whether adoption is right for your family, prepare your family for adoption, and help your family determine which type of child you could best parent. The process also serves to ensure children are placed in loving, caring, healthy, and safe environments. Flexibility and a sense of humor are vital characteristics when raising children, and they can be useful during the home study process as well. With perseverance and a positive outlook, you will be able to team with the social worker to make this a valuable learning experience—one that will help you do the best possible job in parenting the child who will eventually join your family. Looking for more on the adoption homestudy process? Tags: adoption homestudyRelated posts7 CommentsLeave a comment |
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This is a great resource!
Yes, it covers a lot of information.
Thanks for posting that. Just reading it is a source of anxiety- can’t imagine actually going through it.
Hi Danielle, Yes, it definitely is a stressful situation but in the end, it’s worth it if it brings you one step closer to your kids.
We want to adopt someday, but I am terrified of this process. Given all they look at in the homestudy (which is pretty much everything having to do with anything in your life), how on earth can average people be confident that they will pass? I have worked with children at risk, and I have been around enough social workers to know how they judge people for certain things (A lot of things, actually). I just don’t know how people do this if, say, they are on their second marriage, or perhaps had to take depression meds at one point in their lives, or perhaps at some point had an illness. None of these things make you a bad person, but social workers think what they think.
Then, there’s the fact that they interview you about your childhood, your day-to day routines, and how you parent your existing children. You can’t help what your childhood was like, and day to day routines and parenting methods greatly vary among people anyway- what if the social worker doesn’t agree with something? Lord knows, women fight over these things all the time, and they get brutal about it, too…
I totally understand that it’s all worth it to get one step closer to your child. Pregnancy was no picnic, either, and in the end, it was all worth it to get her- so I can imagine the same things relate when you adopt…
It just all seems so impossible, that’s all. Sorry for the rant.
You bring up a lot of good points Danielle…ones that I know other people feel. Give me a day or two and I’m going to post your comment and get some thoughts.
Hi, Danielle.
Joanne posted this on another board, and I wanted to comment on what you wrote. It could have been me writing something like that a few years back, because jumping through all those “hoops” does seem daunting, if you begin thinking you have to tackle the whole thing at once..
Think about adoption — or any other big undertaking — as a drive across town. Do you lament all the red lights you might encounter? You don’t wait to leave until all the lights turn green, because that just doesn’t happen — you’d never leave the house.
Instead, you drive, and eventually, the lights turn green as you get to them. Sometimes you wait. Sometimes you detour. Sometimes there are obstacles that you have to find creative routes around. And yes, sometimes you don’t end up where you aimed to go.
But the risk of red lights don’t stop you from taking the journey.
Good luck to you and your family as you decide what comes next.